Read this book cover to cover. Absorb the philosophy within. Test all theories to the best of your ability. Repeat. Repetition will sharpen new skills and stimulate growth.
Self-mastery is an unending process. Your job is NEVER FINISHED!
Your performance matters most when nobody is watching.
Books alone can’t and won’t fix you.
Life is the mountain we are all climbing, but hope is not an anchor point.
There are two levels to belief. There’s the surface level, which our coaches, teachers, therapists, and parents love to preach. “Belief in yourself,” they all say.
Then there’s the belief born in resilience. It comes from working your way through layers of pain, fatigue, and reason, and ignoring the ever-present temptation to quit until you strike a source of fuel you didn’t even know existed.
It must bubble up from within. You will either swim hard and figure out how to last as long as it takes, or you are bound to drown.
Most people see that familiar gnawing in their gut return, reminding them that the life they are living is not the fullest expression of who they are or might become. Most people are not desperate enough to do anything about it. Very few people question their own warped minds
When you’re hogtied in conflicting emotions and other people’s opinions, it’s impossible to tap into belief and easy to drift away from that urge to evolve.
The world is now populated by damaged people consuming airy gratification, hunting an immediate dopamine fix with no substance at all behind it.
I’m haunted by my future goals, not my past failures. I’m haunted by what I may still become. I’m haunted by my own continued thirst for evolution.
There is no certain number of principles, hours, or steps in this process. It’s about constant effort, learning, and adaptation, which demands unwavering discipline and belief.
Maximizing minimum potential
Sure, I’m a winner now, but I was born a loser. There are a lot of born losers out there. there had been a moment that sparked my metamorphosis.
Something had gone numb in my soul, and that numbness, that lack of deep feeling, dictated what my life had become. It never bothered me much because when you’re numb, you can’t process what’s happening to you or within you. My numbness was a survival mechanism.
When you’re born a loser, your goal is to survive, not thrive. You learn to lie, to cheat, to do what it takes to fit in. You may become a survivor, but it’s a miserable existence.
when you’re living in hell, the only way to find your way out is to confront the Devil himself.
On the long drive, I didn’t listen to music. All I heard were the competing voices in my head.
It ain’t your fucking fault that you were dealt a bad hand, but…it is your responsibility. How long will you allow your past to hold you back before you finally take control of your future?
It was risky, but trailblazers never take the smooth roads thousands of others have already traveled. They go cross-country and dig their own path forward.
Using Negativity in order to fuel yourself
I looked at each day as an opportunity to mine the negativity that had colonized my brain and became fascinated by the power of the mind and how it can work for us and against us.
You don’t need six-pack abs when your mind is steel-plated.
There is nothing inherently special about me. I just stopped focusing on what was holding me back and learned to use rejection, pain, and failure as tools to harness every available bit of dark matter in my mind—all my unused strength, passion, and desire.
Professional fighters don’t train for their biggest bouts at home. They head into the mountains or the woods, somewhere they can focus in relative isolation and without all the luxury. They don’t bring their families. They bring their trainers, and every move they make is about rediscovering their primal nature and that hunger that made them hard and turned them into champions.
When you are a full-time savage, it’s a lifestyle. There is no “want to.” There is only “must do.”
Mental toughness and resilience fade if they aren’t used consistently. I say it all the time: you are either getting better, or you’re getting worse. You’re not staying the same.
If you stop grabbing iron with your bare hands, they will lose their callouses. Your mind works the same way. You have to fight to keep that mindset of getting up every day to get after it because it wants to go away.
Praise—whether it comes from your supervisors, your family, or anyone else—has a downside. It can soothe the inner savage and keep you from feeling the need to grind.
The world needs doctors, lawyers, and teachers, but we also need savages to prove that we are all capable of so much more.
We conjure our biggest dreams, our most audacious goals when we feel safe and warm. There is no space for big-picture thinking when you’re in the heat of battle. When all is calm, even temporarily, damn near anything can feel possible. So that’s when you dream it up and map it all out.
In a blink, they go from being driven and focused to becoming convinced that they had no business even trying. They quit. Right then. Right there.
Your body and mind react that way because they want to protect you by telling you to get the fuck out.
It’s difficult not to give in to all that emotion, acute pain, and discomfort. But everything in life comes down to how we handle those crucial seconds.
When psychological, physical, or emotional pressure redlines, your adrenal glands go haywire, and you are no longer in control.
Our lives aren’t built on hours, days, weeks, months, or years.
Hell Week is 130 hours, but it’s not the hours that kill you. And it’s not the pain, the exhaustion, or the cold. It is the 468,000 seconds that you must win.
When you are in the grip of life and in danger of losing your shit, just think, It’s time to take a knee. Get a couple of breaths and flash to your future. If you fold, what will happen next? What’s your plan B? There is no time to order a pizza and hash it out with your people. This must happen in seconds!
Tell yourself, I’m good here. I’m great there. This sucks, but it will be over in twenty minutes.
Every experience on earth is finite. It will end someday, and that makes it doable, but the outcome hinges on those crucial seconds you must win! It will become a powerful skill you can use again and again to find success, no matter what scenario you’re in or where life takes you.
Control your thought process and get through the most difficult test first.
Respect is earned every day by waking up early, challenging yourself with new dreams or digging up old nightmares, and embracing the suck like you have nothing and have never done a damn thing in your life.
There are 86,400 seconds in a day. Losing just one of those seconds can change the outcome of your day and, potentially, your life.